"Only loving partner may be a proud for you but loving partner with caring attitude and helpful nature is surely a proud for you and jealousy for others... :)"
- An honored wife.
Here in Goa:
They started fighting and suddenly, shikha was out of argument so she yelled at Joy and said - "I don't wanna listen to your nonsense arguments, don't talk to me". that's it. That was a red signal.
but it was very hard for Joy to understand because it was second day of his honeymoon. Yes, you read it correct. Just before 7
Some years back:
Splendid life of Joy started when he took birth. (:D of-course from birth, true for those who are happily positive ;) ). but life changed when he selected to study from a different location. This chandigarh born boy has decided to live an independent life for self growth (So theoretical). As we all know, college life is full of "FUN". he enjoyed it, lived it and left it.
His shining luck has supported him to get a job even after recession. As an emotional fool fresher, he started working hard with whatever chiller he was getting at that small start up. Along with the hard work (and company switching strategy...), he saved enough for his marriage and honeymoon.
Nature-wise, he's an angry idiot. His friends know and react according to mood swings. Unwilling situations force him to present fancy, strange expressions.
on the other hand,
Joint family girl, Shikha: had already a life full of happy emotions, good time. Upper middle class, joint family, beauty with brain. Along with all these combinations, she was raised with great care. She was just a common girl who loves her dad aaallllooottt... After completion of master course, she started her job with marketing section. she was actually confused with her career. She wanted to be a teacher, she wanted to be a manager in marketing department, she has feeling of being good HR. she was actually running where ever the wind was going.
Even after these many confusions, she was happy with every work she picked. Coming on the character part, Shikha is a very much angry, stub-burn and zero patience girl. she has prepared a big file of wishes (It seems almost everything which can be used to fascinate was there in her list). In case of people skills, she is little lacking in handling them.
The day
That's the beauty of God. He will never bear peace in one's life. It was horrible Sunday. Their parents decided to arrange the meeting for the proposal of this new relationship. After first round of interview, their parents decided that boy and girl should meet alone now... That first meeting was a key to change their future. The scenario description according to Joy-
"First of all, i was having very strange feelings due to the style of arrange marriage, moreover, i never had that fluency with girls. Still, i started walking towards the place where she was waiting for me. Along with every footstep, my confusion level and heartbeat level was increasing. I wasn't nervous but i was confused on how i should behave to make her feel comfortable.
Finally, i reached in that room, took a deep breath and opened the door. Beeindruckend!!! The beauty of face was like a shining bulb with 10,000 Walt power. That eyeliner was suitable enough to create awesome eye shade. The small fancy decorative mark on her forehead was catching eyes. Her mild lipstick made my mouth water. well-arranged hairstyle according to her personality. Magical dressing style. I was getting a feel of meeting with rich celebrity. For once, i took a step back and thought that this girl looks so good and I may not be suitable idiot for her... :("
After entering the room, Joy got a warm welcome with tensed face. Shikha was also in same confusion. Joy understood this situation quickly and started the light conversation to cheer her up. He even made some jokes according to situation also. After creating comfortable environment, they had some stupid chit-chat (I really don't know what magic happened between them, they both agreed for the marriage).
Courtship
Some call it golden period of life. People say that this is the duration when both can start knowing each other, but in this chapter, Joy and Shikha spent 90% of their time fighting. The anger level of Shikha was at the level of sky, It's that remaining 10% duration in which they came closer, even said "I love you to each other" (out of curiosity, i asked joy how you did it!! :) ). Joy shared their conversation topics
- Don't talk to me
- Don't call me
- I don't wanna talk to you
- Get out of my way etc...
Joy said that it was only one incident when Shikha understood her mistake and confronted him. Apart from this, Joy was the one who always left his ego behind and thought of letting it go.
Back to second day of honeymoon
Those fights were not just limited to courtship. They were extended after marriage and this time, they were even in large size. For initial 6 months, they fought for around 4.5 months and rest of the time, Joy spent on convincing her. Even this duration was sufficient enough that their love was increased silently.
Shikha's tolerance level is almost zero. Moreover, she was that sweetest girl of her home where she never got any scoldings. So, she was getting hit @ every moment.
Till today, she never tried understood Joy. she never listened to him. she never provided any support or any co-operation. She never granted any of his wish.
However, Shikha took great care of Joy. she helped him managing proper relationship, Taught him humanity. Changed his style. Improved his status and along with a huge responsibility of Joy as a husband, she also started a job.
Holidays
Joy was missing the scoldings of shikha. start of day with rotten tomato face of shikha, her scoldings, her caring nature, her beauty. he was missing everything.
First time, he understood that
- He was very much wrong in taking proper care of her.
- How much insufficient he was in giving her the comfort level which she was getting at her parent's home!!
- How much idiot he was, when he was not agreeing to what she was demanding (after all, Shikha has a good understanding level, she doesn't demand moon in real.)
- Joy got the point that the girl has left everything from her past life and came to join a fool to spend her rest of life.
- Even after this much realization, he decided to be the best hubby according to Shikha.
when shikha returned from home, she came to Joy and tightly hugged him. She expressed her loneliness without Joy. From that, Joy started the efforts to be a good husband. These days, I don't hear any sounds of fight. However, i surely can listen the scolding voice of Shikha but never a high volume of Joy. Joy always tries to do the thing which shikha likes. Joy stopped putting his useless, demands. Joy started helping Shikha in every small work of home or office. He is living very lovely and fantastic life. What you guys have to say? is it ok of live like Joy or Something better can happen....
