All that matters is Happiness!!!... ⤼

It’s been a year, since Naydu family went for outing anywhere. Full family was in a fresh mood. Even after journey started @ 10 PM, nobody was feeling sleepy. And why not? Such excitement becomes compulsory when you are getting something after a long time (& you are also waiting for it…).

Long time is referred in the sense that Mr & Mrs Naydu has stopped any kind of expense which is not fruitful or helpful in improving money condition of home. Their sacrifice is amazingly marvelous (after all, they are parents and the parenting, itself is a great task). Mrs Naydu spends her free time with close relatives and a sewing machine. In fact, she has considered that machine to be another companion of life apart from the husband. Her husband, Mr Naydu, a purely sincere business man, dedicated his life to serve their children. After saving every penny, they afforded a home.

Coming back to the trip, this time both husband, wife, their son 'Antariksh' and his wife 'Ruby'. Antariksh is an investment banker and earning sufficient to afford this full trip. Ruby is also an HR in a reputed firm. Even after getting this much achievement, they have decided to travel in sleeper class of train because they believe in simplicity. The family routed themselves in Jaisalmer - a tourist spot in Rajasthan.  once they reached the destination, what they are seeing is a big crowd enjoying their holidays.

The atmosphere is very cold yet crowdy. People are covered with cloths to

save themselves from freezing pink cold. It's 4:30 am in morning. Mr Naydu is aware of the place so they are ready to start their fun. Antariksh also googled some details and they are completely prepare to walk around with any guidance. The real fun begins after the station. First of all, they got some place to fresh up and have some tea and snacks.

The sleepy mood ran away in the excitement of journey. But the God is sometime in the mood of playing hard. Just after they had their breakfast: Some snatcher gang came on the bike and covered the family. They threatened Naydu n family to give away all the things which they have. Now, Mr Naydu is a man with good understanding. So instead of fighting with them, he allowed them to take whatever they had. Those burglars took all of the stuff including purses, money, luggage, phones, etc. The family left alone with no help @ 5:30 am in the morning. This is the time when they are not going to get any help from any one. Not even police!!!

The incident is a big stroke to the family's mentality. Mrs Naydu started crying. They found one place to sit and at the same time some other lady was also crying at the same place. Antariksh asked that lady the reason. Surprisingly, that lady was also one of the victim but her luggage was stolen not snatched. Anyway, situation was same. In such situation, No one was able to think about what to do next. Suddenly, Ruby woke up and inspired Antariksh to handle situation.

Mr Naydu and Ruby stood there along with Mrs Naydu and Antariksh went to police station. The police officer played a very serious role of being kind. He just wrote a simple application (Not even FIR... :( ). Antariksh called one friend and arranged all the material to continue the journey. He returned to his parents and said few words of happiness. I don't know what he said but whole family agreed to continue the trip (even with the off-mood). They completed their whole trip and decided not to have any such trip.

But Antariksh and Ruby are still in the hope of convincing their parents because they know that "All that matters is Happiness!!..."

Next time! when your child ask for play Computer Game, you will be saying YES!!!! If you have read this....

Is It So?!!

Yes, you are reading it right... If you feel your child is ruining his/her life by playing too much games then you may be wrong. Because there are lots of games in the world, who can earn you million dollar. Then you must be questioning about why i am not doing it and writing this stupid blog. For that, Let me tell you my friend that, playing game is easy and achieving a stage where you start earning is not some beginner's fun. I have already tied up my hands with many other things but whenever i'll get free time, i am going to try it.

For creating attraction, lemme give you example of the most famous DOTA game. Every year, a tournament is organized. The winner team is getting much more money than our routine salary job or a business. In 2016, the distributed prize amount was $20,770,460. (It took 30-50 seconds for me to spell this number...). This international competition was  held @Seattle. (For more information, Just google it or visit reference-1).

Playing, Winning and Earning

"Elders say that

when you do something,

do it for a purpose."

Every time, when a new game is launched in market, first task should be to do a research. There are possibilities that game is coming with chances to earn. For example, Playing rummy, poker, etc. can be a source of income. These games can pay you up to some thousands. If you are a good player then you can make it full time job to play and earn.

Some games even help you increase your social networking. For example, Ingress is a well-established game with a networking base virtual reality world concept. It encourages you to travel the world and visit different sites (you can say Pokémon Go is a copy of virtual reality based game). 

For earning through Games, There are two (indirectly many) ways,

• Either you select a game which is being played in competitive manner and there is money to win
• You play every game, become a master and start promoting their game (companies will pay you to promote their game)

Both case requires proper concentration, determination and willingness to win. However, if we count indirect ways then there are many ways.

• Either you can start creating plug-ins for games
• Hard-wares which make it more easier to play (For example, drone controlled through phone and connected to phone GPS for Pokémon Go)
• Arrange tournaments
• Get sponsors
• keep prizes
• registration, etc.
• Generate your own event
• Use your business mind and marketing techniques
• Create a game yourself
• Play for some others and get good scores for them
• And Many More....

In case, you need my help just leave a comment here... :)

References

1. http://dota2.prizetrac.kr/
2. http://moneypantry.com/get-paid-to-play-games-online-for-free/

How to be long-distant best Parent?

     Introduction

I may not be a right person for this topic but few months back, i got one assignment to work on. I am just posting my finding of that time. In today's life, you may find it very hard to be at one place constantly. I have heard that IT jobs are like a cats n dogs fight. you fight with your company, change your job.

Being a parent has never been a simple job. The tasks becomes more challenging, when a parent is geographically far away from their kids. Each parent, i.e. father and mother, has different perspective. The optimal development of children requires the perspectives of both. The child’s self-image, moral development and ability to develop positive relationships are influenced by the role of father and mother both. However, the long distances, whatever the reason it may be for, reduces intimacy and understanding between the parents and the children. It is possible that, such distances may get converted into the emotional distances. It is the responsibility of parent to take care of such situation and handle scenario before the loss of emotions. This requires the parent to have compassion, commitment and integrity to the parent-child relationship. This essay emphasis on the effective ways that helps geographically far located father because of job to maintain close relationship with his children (Defoe, 1719).

2.      The word “Long-Distance”

Generally, long-distance phrase is referred to indicate the distance which gives a feeling of really far. Even if it is a centimeter distance, it may be considered as long distance. However, as one of the definition of Long-distance, Oxford dictionary has following content. “Denoting or relating to a race distance of 6 miles or 10,000 meters (6 miles 376 yds), or longer” (Oxford Dictionaries, 2016).

3.      Kid’s relationship with long-distant father

The overall well-being of children is largely influenced by the mere presence of father figure in their life. It was reported by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services that due to absence of father from children’s life, the change of drug and alcohol addiction, criminality, poor education performance, mental illness, teen pregnancy, suicide, etc. among children increases. The father by their presence in contributes significantly to the child’s mental peacefulness. Nearly 63% youth suicides and 85% of children suffering from behavioral disorders belongs to fatherless home. Thus, the involvement of father in the kids’ lives is very essential. Simply giving financial and emotional support will not do to maintain physical health of the kids (Defoe, 1719).

 Keeping lines of communication open with kids is always beneficial for the long-distance dad. The father should have regular contact with his kids by telephoning. In today’s high-tech communication age, conversation, exchange of photos, etc. have become very easy through emails. It is possible to have virtual visitation, real time and face-to-face conversation with the help of web-cam. The regular contact will keep a long-distance dad aware of the kids’ daily activities and progress (Ashley, 2008).

Maintaining good relationship with the mother supports the long-distance dad a lot. It gives the dad a full picture of happenings in the children’s lives. As in the absence of father, it is a mother who looks after the children’s school schedules, their homework, school activities and other various daily stuff. In case mother is happy, she will support the attempts and efforts of the long-distance dad to stay in touch with his kids. If mother is unhappy due certain activities of father, it is possible that she may bad mouth the long-distance father to kids and may influence their relationship with their dad (Ashley, 2008).  

Due to technological advancement, it is possible for the long-distance dad to maintain balance between work and family. He has an opportunity to involve in the kids’ lives, and have better and regular interaction with them. They have better chance to resolve the problems, confusion and dilemmas of kids, as well as impart them essential understanding and knowledge for their optimal development.

Showcasing commitment assists in holding solid relationship, specifically during odd times. A father needs to show his commitment to create the highest level of trust. Every effort seems to be ineffective if the child don’t feel the commitment from father. This dedication is required more over the age. As children grow, their expectations from father also grow and amount of carefulness required also grow (Ashley, 2008).

 References

Ashley, Steven. The Long-Distance Dad: How You Can Be There for Your Child-Whether Divorced, Deployed, or on-the road. Avon, MA: Adams Media, 2008. Print.

Defoe, Daniel. Robinson Crusoe. London: Macmillan and Company, 1719. Print.

Oxford Dictionaries. “Definition of long distance in English”. 2016. 11 May 2016.

A New Deadly Virus : Pokemon Goooooooooo!!!!!

          History says that every new game captures the market very rapidly if it has something creative, it relates to the childhood and it creates an endless competition. On 6th July, 2016, same thing got released in the market with the name "Pokémon Go". The game is basically related to the Pokémon cartoon. Name, itself, attracts the people. (I'm sure you'll google out the history and details of game owners...)

It’s been 11 days to its release (as I am writing this thing on 17th July 2017). Before 6 days, i.e. 11th July, 2016, it was reported that there are 5.9% of android user who are active in this game. Wagner (2016) also suggested that estimated user count might be around 9.5 million USA citizens. There are N number of articles published, various tools and techniques are developed to play it better. Even a race is started to be on top. According to top players, the game has yet to be in its full mode because there are many features to evolve the market.

Let's take a small look at what the hell this game is!!?? The game is designed on the basis of virtual reality. There is one character, presenting the player and a virtual world layer created on the top of the actual world. Now, the game is to travel the world and move along all the places. Whenever you move, the character in the game also moves in the same direction. After few distance, you will see a Pokémon, all you need to do is hit it with a ball and catch it... (Like the one shown in the image here). According to the experience and amount of travel, your level is decided. (It increases gradually). This is basic rule of game, travel and collect. After a certain level, there are other parts also which will come as you start following the game. For the game, there should be GPS enabled and data network.

The game has created such an impression that people are doing crazy things in order to play it. Some people are trace passing in the properties where they are not allowed to. There are many incidents reported with nuisance work. People are not looking at the road, they are just looking on mobile screen and catch Pokémon. Walking person is not even listening to her companion. Recently, I heard about a truck accident which happened because the driver was playing this bloody game and he didn't care for others. There are many more such effects.

Now this game is creating both positive and negative effects. As a positive effect, first of all, it is keeping those busy whose minds are free (I guess they must be on the bench...J). People, like me, are trying to find ways to earn from this game. There are people who say that this game has created a very positive effect on their mental health. (I didn't believe them!!! can you? Check here...). However, I would suggest you to refer this article for checking out the mental effects of this game.

Today, when I started typing in google for some search work. I just started typing “How to” and I got the suggestions “How to play Pokémon Go” as first suggestion. J. I wonder, how much, people used it in last 10-12 days. It has also got the attention of hackers. Recently, hackers crashed game's server by DDOS methods. The game has taken the level of play from children’s hand to the real world. It is good that it is encouraging people to travel the world. But let’s hope that people do enjoy the beauty of the world during this travel and don’t fall blind behind the madness of this game. I guess playing it for some time isn’t going to create any harm… What you have to say about this?

References

Wagner, K. (2016). How many people are actually playing Pokémon Go? Here’s our best guess so far. Just a little back-of-the-napkin math. Retrieved on July 17, 2016, from http://www.recode.net/2016/7/13/12181614/pokemon-go-number-active-users

Cnet. (2016). 17 tips for Pokemon Go. Retrieved on July 17, 2016, from http://www.cnet.com/pictures/16-tips-for-pokemon-go/

Attn. (2016). Pokémon Go Is Having an Effect on Players' Mental Health. Retrieved on July 17, 2016, from http://www.attn.com/stories/9779/pokemon-go-affecting-players-mental-health

BeautyNot. (2016). How Pokémon Go effects Your Mental Health. Retrieved on July 17, 2016, from http://www.beautynot.com/how-pokemon-go-effects-your-mental-health/#.V4vHU7h97IU

Utna hi teri adaao ka mere dil pe chhaya khumaar he...

No matter, how much pain you are in the ass!!!
No matter, how you act in your normal ways... :D
Only i know, how deep you care for me...

Thank you my dear for taking a task of renovating my life...
(I know its a bit tough task... :P)

Dedicated to my dearest piece of heart...

kabhi jaagte hue khabo me to kabhi sote hue sapno me,

tum maano na maano par hamare liye tum ho mere apno me....

parinde ko hawaa se aur mitti ko pani se jitna pyaar he,

utna hi teri adaao ka mere dil pe chhaya khumaar he...

har lamhe ko puri khushi se jina sikhaya he tumne,

is duniya ki sari khubsurti pe dhyan dilaya he tumne....

aatar ki khushbu ko logo k sukun se jitna pyaar he,

utna hi teri adaao ka mere dil pe chhaya khumaar he...

tumhare liye paagal hua hu ye mera ikrar he,

dhadkane suni to pata chala k sala dil hi kahi faraar he...

khuda ko insaan se aur insaan ko apni jaan se jitna pyaar he,

utna hi teri adaao ka mere dil pe chhaya khumaar he...

_____________________________________________________________________________________________

कभी  जागते हुयें ख़्वाबों में, तो कभी सोते हुयें सपनों में,
तुम मानों ना मानों पर हमारे लिये तुम हो मेरे अपनो में!
परिंदे को हवा और मीट्टी को पानी से जितना प्यार हैं,
उतना ही तेरी अदाओं  का मेरे दिल पे छाया खुमार हैं!

हर लम्हे को पुरी ख़ुशी से जीना सिखाया हैं तुमने,
इस दुनियाँ की खूबसूरती पर ध्यान दिलाया हैं तुमनें!
अतर की खुशबु को लोगो के सुकून से जितना प्यार हैं ,
उतना ही तेरी अदाओं  का मेरे दिल पे छाया खुमार हैं!

तुम्हारे लिए हुआ हूँ पागल, ये मेरा इकरार हैं,

धड़कने सुनी तो पता चला के साला दिल ही कही फरार हैं !

खुदा को इन्सान से और इन्सान को अपनी जान से जितना प्यार हैं ,

उतना ही तेरी अदाओं  का मेरे दिल पे छाया खुमार हैं!

Being an Ideal for Society - "Pujit Rupani Trust"

There are 2 kinds of people in this world

- one who shares humanity video, pics, sayings (we consider them active members of whatsApp and   other Social Media!!)

- one who actually cares and takes actions to help...(They don't ask for publicity but they deserve it...)

Self Appraisal:

This is the right time for self appreciation.

Today,

I am a "Technology Analyst" at "Infosys Limited - Jaipur", where i am kind of working with the awesome team.

I am working with my wife  for her content writing business and online tutoring work.

Now, I am writing my own blogs.

Sometimes, i also involve myself in some freelancing stuff... (More About Me & FB)

Yup!!!! That's me... :D

When i used to be a stray cattle, I wasn't aware that i can also be such useful idiot. In crucial times of study life, i could have given up on my learning task because of the economic situations of my dear family.

My dear friends Group of Trust
with Anjali Ma'am

In this situation, I got a name "Pujit Rupani Trust". My paa heard that this is the place which he should visit and explain them the situation. I don't know what all processes my father followed or whom he contacted. But "Pujit Rupani Trust" took my responsibility for the expense of study.

On the first day, when i entered the ambiance, it was a very  peaceful, clean, yet full of people, atmosphere. I met the other students. I came to know about them and then i got the information about trust and its activities. Let me take a moment and describe what are my thoughts of their work.

Believe me,
They are much more expressive!! :)
Anjali Ma'am and Vijay Sir

Main name behind the trust is Mr Vijay Rupani. A big name in today's politics :). He might have other side as a political professional but we, as students, never felt so. When i stand in front of him, i always felt safe. He got his fame because of his kind nature, not because of any political movement... Along with the career, he is also leading this trust and helping people.

On one hand, he is working for society and spreading his love to all of them who are in need. On the other hand, Mrs Anjali Rupani is an ideal to follow. She is making an equal efforts for the success of this noble cause. with her impressive personality, she is able to convince and guide us very effectively. She has always provided her warm support,

On these two pillars, the flag of Pujit Rupani Trust is making awesome movements for the improvement of society. Along with them, There is a tremendous team working with them. They provide help to students in need. They help the poor to get earning so that they don't have to fight for bread and butter. They help sick people in getting medical help (Otherwise, the situation would be like i would prefer to be sick, instead of handling medical expense... :( ). I don't even know, how many more ways they are working for society. (However, you can always visit "Pujit Rupani Trust Official Website" for more information about them...)

Even if i keep on writing about them, i don't think i can repay their debt of love. I will be thank full to them, to the trust and to all the persons of the trust, who contributed in giving my life a direction. Will not bore you with my emotional talks (I guess i already did!!!). Only last thing to say-

I am just a little confused about their existence.

I don't know whether they are GOD or the entities representing GOD.

Beeindruckend!!! an awesome change

"Only loving partner may be a proud for you but loving partner with caring attitude and helpful nature is surely a proud for you and jealousy for others... :)"

- An honored wife.

"A relation works properly, when there is mutual understanding" - Some one stupid. And i have been searching this stupid person through out my life to slap him. According to me, relation works properly, when one person (at-least) has calm nature and good understanding of things. Here, I am about to present a story of one person with heavy patience... :D

Here in Goa:

"If i am in Goa, i am not going to listen anything... m surely going to enjoy little more into water" - with anger Joy started shouting on his wife Shikha. Actually, shikha has a water-o-fobia. she clearly declared an order stating that no one will go in deep water (she was actually standing where even shoe was not fully in water...).
They started fighting and suddenly, shikha was out of argument so she yelled at Joy and said - "I don't wanna listen to your nonsense arguments, don't talk to me". that's it. That was a red signal.
but it was very hard for Joy to understand because it was second day of his honeymoon. Yes, you read it correct. Just before 7

days, this boy and girl were converted into "an arranged couple".

Some years back:

Splendid life of Joy started when he took birth. (:D of-course from birth, true for those who are happily positive ;) ). but life changed when he selected to study from a different location. This chandigarh born boy has decided to live an independent life for self growth (So theoretical). As we all know, college life is full of "FUN". he enjoyed it, lived it and left it.
His shining luck has supported him to get a job even after recession. As an emotional fool fresher, he started working hard with whatever chiller he was getting at that small start up. Along with the hard work (and company switching strategy...), he saved enough for his marriage and honeymoon.
Nature-wise, he's an angry idiot. His friends know and react according to mood swings. Unwilling situations force him to present fancy, strange expressions.

on the other hand,

Joint family girl, Shikha: had already a life full of happy emotions, good time.  Upper middle class, joint family, beauty with brain. Along with all these combinations, she was raised with great care. She was just a common girl who loves her dad aaallllooottt... After completion of master course, she started her job with marketing section. she was actually confused with her career. She wanted to be a teacher, she wanted to be a manager in marketing department, she has feeling of being good HR. she was actually running where ever the wind was going.
Even after these many confusions, she was happy with every work she picked. Coming on the character part, Shikha is a very much angry, stub-burn and zero patience girl. she has prepared a big file of wishes (It seems almost everything which can be used to fascinate was there in her list). In case of people skills, she is little lacking in handling them.

The day

That's the beauty of God. He will never bear peace in one's life. It was horrible Sunday. Their parents decided to arrange the meeting for the proposal of this new relationship. After first round of interview, their parents decided that boy and girl should meet alone now... That first meeting was a key to change their future. The scenario description according to Joy-

"First of all, i was having very strange feelings due to the style of arrange marriage, moreover, i never had that fluency with girls. Still, i started walking towards the place where she was waiting for me. Along with every footstep, my confusion level and heartbeat level was increasing. I wasn't nervous but i was confused on how i should behave to make her feel comfortable.
Finally, i reached in that room, took a deep breath and opened the door. Beeindruckend!!! The beauty of face was like a shining bulb with 10,000 Walt power. That eyeliner was suitable enough to create awesome eye shade. The small fancy decorative mark on her forehead was catching eyes. Her mild lipstick made my mouth water. well-arranged hairstyle according to her personality. Magical dressing style. I was getting a feel of meeting with rich celebrity. For once, i took a step back and thought that this girl looks so good and I may not be suitable idiot for her... :("

After entering the room, Joy got a warm welcome with tensed face. Shikha was also in same confusion. Joy understood this situation quickly and started the light conversation to cheer her up. He even made some jokes according to situation also. After creating comfortable environment, they had some stupid chit-chat (I really don't know what magic happened between them, they both agreed for the marriage).

Courtship

Some call it golden period of life. People say that this is the duration when both can start knowing each other, but in this chapter, Joy and Shikha spent 90% of their time fighting. The anger level of Shikha was at the level of sky, It's that remaining 10% duration in which they came closer, even said "I love you to each other" (out of curiosity, i asked joy how you did it!! :) ). Joy shared their conversation topics
- Don't talk to me
- Don't call me
- I don't wanna talk to you
- Get out of my way etc...
Joy said that it was only one incident when Shikha understood her mistake and confronted him. Apart from this, Joy was the one who always left his ego behind and thought of letting it go.

Back to second day of honeymoon

Those fights were not just limited to courtship. They were extended after marriage and this time, they were even in large size. For initial 6 months, they fought for around 4.5 months and rest of the time, Joy spent on convincing her. Even this duration was sufficient enough that their love was increased silently.
Shikha's tolerance level is almost zero. Moreover, she was that sweetest girl of her home where she never got any scoldings. So, she was getting hit @ every moment.
Till today, she never tried understood Joy. she never listened to him. she never provided any support or any co-operation. She never granted any of his wish.
However, Shikha took great care of Joy. she helped him managing proper relationship, Taught him humanity. Changed his style. Improved his status and along with a huge responsibility of Joy as a husband, she also started a job.

Holidays

Now is the turning point of the story. Shikha went her home to spend free/quality time. The duration was 10 days. This is the time when Joy understood the love and emotions he has developed inside for Shikha. On the other hand, Shikha's condition was not so different. She was also missing him a lot.
Joy was missing the scoldings of shikha. start of day with rotten tomato face of shikha, her scoldings, her caring nature, her beauty. he was missing everything.
First time, he understood that

• He was very much wrong in taking proper care of her.
• How much insufficient he was in giving her the comfort level which she was getting at her parent's home!!
• How much idiot he was, when he was not agreeing to what she was demanding (after all, Shikha has a good understanding level, she doesn't demand moon in real.)
• Joy got the point that the girl has left everything from her past life and came to join a fool to spend her rest of life.
• Even after this much realization, he decided to be the best hubby according to Shikha.

when shikha returned from home, she came to Joy and tightly hugged him. She expressed her loneliness without Joy. From that, Joy started the efforts to be a good husband. These days, I don't hear any sounds of fight. However, i surely can listen the scolding voice of Shikha but never a high volume of Joy. Joy always tries to do the thing which shikha likes. Joy stopped putting his useless, demands. Joy started helping Shikha in every small work of home or office. He is living very lovely and fantastic life. What you guys have to say? is it ok of live like Joy or Something better can happen....